Stop sacrificing your connection to Christ for the busyness of the world.
You really can get more done and walk closely with the Lord.
Embrace your vocation with simple, sustainable housekeeping systems and a Marian heart to keep you grounded in Jesus.
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You know prayer is the most important thing. So why is it the first thing to go?
You want to spend time with God.
You want to feel connected, guided, and inspired.
But between breakfast, laundry, driving, meltdowns, and everything else…
you feel like you can’t win.
And when you do try to pray, it’s scattered and rushed. You feel guilty. You wonder why it’s so hard.
You tell yourself, “Maybe when life slows down.”
But what if it’s not about waiting for the chaos to end…
What if it’s about letting prayer anchor you in the middle of it?
“I felt a huge shift in just 30 days”
“By the end of the first month, I was already yelling less and feeling more peace.”
— Catherine
I mean, shouldn’t you just be thankful for what you have? Suck it up and handle your suffering with grace?
You’re trying, but the never-ending tasks and insane mental load leave you feeling like you’re always behind, running on empty, and buried under a Goliath-sized mountain of laundry, sticky floors, and children (and husbands) with constant demands.
I see you.
You’re not alone.
Many Catholic moms–good, holy women–feel like they’re barely keeping their heads above water, barely hanging on.
Introducing
Mary's Heart, Martha's Order
A 6-week Catholic challenge for moms who want to:
Pray more, feel less overwhelmed, and finally live the life God is calling them to—without dropping all the balls.
Because when you give God ten focused minutes a day…
The rest of your life really does get easier.
“My family is noticing the difference in me.”
“My husband and kids have said I seem lighter, happier, more present.
It’s amazing how just ten minutes a day of prayer and planning has made such a visible change.”
— Maria
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Each Week, You'll Follow
3 Easy Steps
STEP one:
Watch a Short Challenge Video
STEP two:
Set Up a New Fool-proof system
STEP three:
(optional) Come to q&A Call for support and system refinement
What you’ll get during the challenge:
- A community of faithful Catholic moms (off of social media!) This community is a safe space to share your challenges, celebrate your victories, and grow together in faith.
- Tons of tried-and-true strategies for home management so you can find one that works for your lifestyle and your family. Yes, with checklists!
- Sterling’s exact process for getting your family to help with the chores and systems so you don’t have to shoulder all the housework by yourself.
- A short weekly video with tips, tricks, and hacks that will knock out your decision fatigue and help you get things done faster.
- Weekly help from Sterling and her team to help answer any questions that come up along the way so don’t get or stay stuck during this process.
- Daily audio prayers from Sterling to help you stay centered and focused on what God is asking you.
- PRIZES. Finally! Getting the recognition and fun you deserve for doing the laundry. 🙌🏼 (This might sound cheesy, but it’s true. All mothers deserve recognition for the work they do in their homes on a daily basis!)
“This is the first time I’ve felt hopeful in a long time.”
“I didn’t even realize how hopeless I’d been feeling until I started this challenge. For the first time in a long time, I feel peace and real hope again.”
— Therese
“I used to dread the day. Now I wake up calm.”
“I used to wake up with a pit in my stomach, already overwhelmed. But now I start my day with prayer and planning—and it’s completely changed how I feel in the mornings.”
— Clare
Before and After: Meet Rebecca
- BEFORE: Rebecca knew she needed prayer—but she never felt like she had the time. Every night she went to bed with a heavy heart, feeling like she’d failed God and herself again.
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AFTER 6 WEEKS: Rebecca now begins each day with 10 minutes of calm, focused prayer, followed by a quick plan for the day.
Her home isn’t perfect, but her spirit is steadier. She gets more done with less stress, and feels closer to God than she has in years.
“This challenge radically transformed my life.”
“I’m more patient, more prayerful, and my whole home feels lighter.”
— Elizabeth
“I feel like I have so much more time.”
”I’m still just as busy, but I don’t feel frantic anymore.
The planning helps me focus.”
— Lucy
You Don’t Need an Hour of Silence. You Just Need a Plan.
In this challenge, you’ll learn a simple 3-step rhythm to stay rooted in prayer and peace, even in a full household:
- Start your day with focused prayer
- Ask God what matters most today
- Create a flexible, realistic plan—and live it out with grace
“I’ve felt so much more peace after praying & planning each day.”
“It’s only twenty minutes total, but it gives me peace that lasts all day.”
— Anna
“This is the first time I’ve felt hopeful in a long time.”
“I didn’t even realize how hopeless I’d been feeling until I started this challenge. For the first time in a long time, I feel peace and real hope again.”
— Therese
“I used to dread the day. Now I wake up calm.”
“I used to wake up with a pit in my stomach, already overwhelmed. But now I start my day with prayer and planning—and it’s completely changed how I feel in the mornings.”
— Clare
I've helped thousands of Catholic moms.
For ten years, I’ve helped women make sense of the chaos of motherhood so they can drop the crushing guilt that they’re screwing everything up.
It doesn’t matter what life stage you’re in… littles to adult children.
When you tell yourself you’re failing… all day long… it’s exhausting.
Systems plus the love and care of Jesus completely changes your life and gives you so much of your energy back. Life doesn’t have to be draining!
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“I don’t feel like I’m failing all the time anymore.”
“I’m learning to recognize my efforts and speak more kindly to myself.”
— Marie
“I no longer wake up dreading the day.”
“My mornings feel calm now, even when life is still full of challenges.”
— Rebecca
What’s included in the 6-Week Challenge:
Each week you’ll receive:
- A short video teaching a simple, practical system
- Daily “Pray & Plan” worksheets (paper or digital)
- A private podcast guiding your 10 minutes of prayer and planning
- Encouragement, accountability, and a Catholic community walking beside you
You’ll learn:
- How to hear God’s voice in your real, everyday life
- How to stop feeling like you’re failing spiritually
- How to make progress at home without running on stress or guilt
“This gave me a reset without shame.”
“Other programs made me feel like a failure. This one helped me start fresh—and stick with it.”
— Bernadette
You can live like Mary, even in a Martha world.
This challenge is for you if:
- A short video teaching a simple, practical system
- Daily “Pray & Plan” worksheets (paper or digital)
- A private podcast guiding your 10 minutes of prayer and planning
- Encouragement, accountability, and a Catholic community walking beside you
You’ll learn:
- How to hear God’s voice in your real, everyday life
- How to stop feeling like you’re failing spiritually
- How to make progress at home without running on stress or guilt
here's what you'll do, week by week:
Week 1
Transform Your Time:
create a calendar that Brings Freedom and Peace
Create a calendar that works for your family and gives you lots of freedom so you feel empowered by–not beholden to your calendar.
This week…
- Learn my signature process for remaking your calendar so you can fit in all the things you need (and want!) to do AND feel great about it. This is the same method I use to manage six homeschooled children, run a business, attend daily Mass, and play board games with the kids.
- Shape your calendar so you have more freedom no matter what activities are scheduled. I have a full day from 6 am to 8 pm, take good care of myself, and don’t feel rushed.
- Discover the ONE thing virtually no Catholic mom puts on her calendar. This makes every other aspect of their home management and motherhood easier. The first time you hear it, it’ll sound crazy, but then, it’s THE game-changer.
Say goodbye to calendar stress, overwhelm, and the frantic craze that comes with a busy schedule and feel peaceful, calm, and in control of what’s happening each day.
Week 2
Mary's Peace in Any Storm:
5 questions to bring you peace no matter what you're going through
This is one of those life-changing tools. In fact, it’s what we are most popular for! We can teach you how to have that Peter walking on the water peace no matter what’s going on in your life.
This week…
- Discover the five questions to ask to get clarity and peace. #1 by itself is a game-changing question.
- Learn what challenges in your life require action and which require acceptance. This will give you so much of your energy back by saving you time worrying about things you can’t change.
- This is easy.– I promise you’ll want to turn right around and teach this to your kids so they can cope with life’s challenges better!
You’ll walk away with a simple tool that you can use anytime, and it takes less than five minutes. The result is way more peace!
Week 3
Decrease Stress and Clutter
TECHNIQUES TO RETURN TO CALM AND DECLUTTER FROM PEACE
A lot of our stress is optional! Learn how to identify when you’re in a stress state and come back to the Lord. To test our new tools, we’ll do some decluttering from peace.
This week…
You’ll learn ways to calm down including simple breathing exercises, grounding techniques, and using your senses to return to peace.
Understand the stress states of Fight/Flight (Hyper-arousal) and Freeze/Dissociation (Hypo-arousal) so you can choose the right reset before deeper prayer.
Tackle the challenge of decluttering from a place of peace, deciding what to purge and using staging areas like KEEP, RELOCATE, and DONATE.
Learn tips for success, like setting a timer for 50 minutes of focused work followed by a break, and taking a before picture.
Week 4
Protocols and Mastering Mealtimes:
Simple Meal Planning and Problem Solving
Stop the drama around meal planning and create an easy-to-stick-to weekly plan that brings peace to your evenings and creates more quality time together.
This week…
Learn how to build Protocols for specific difficult scenarios (like a migraine or a sick child) deciding ahead of time what you will and will not do.
Discover and create your Green/Yellow/Red Protocol for prolonged suffering or busy seasons to manage your energy levels and simplify your expectations.
Learn multiple fool-proof strategies for meal planning that don’t involve last-minute scrambles or spending all weekend prepping.
Discover effective food management strategies like leveraging online grocery shopping, using a digital list, and having a system for leftovers.
Week 5
Discernment & Laundry Systems:
GETTING TO KNOW GOD'S VOICE AND SIMPLIFYING THE LOAD
Lean on the same guidance that Mary did by learning to hear God’s voice, so we KNOW we’re doing God’s will. Simplify your laundry routine and lighten your load (literally and metaphorically).
This week…
Learn a 5-minute exercise for Discerning God’s Voice that involves clearing your heart, laying the situation before Him, and writing what you sense Him saying.
Review the Gifts of the Holy Spirit and their corresponding virtues, and focus on WHEN to use the gifts to leverage these holy superpowers in your daily life.
Implement Sterling’s Laundry Secrets that work in any home.
Feel great about your closets and a laundry system, and stop drowning in dirty laundry or spending your entire weekend catching up.
Week 6
Healing Wounds & Cleaning Out the Car:
REVISITING MEMORIES WITH CHRIST AND TURNING YOUR CAR INTO AN ASSISTANT
Most moms have a super negative voice in their minds and this… is very draining. Jesus wouldn’t yell at you and Mary definitely wouldn’t berate you to be a better mom and homemaker.
This week…
- You’ll learn first to pay attention to the voice in your mind so you can begin to hear how you speak to yourself.
- Then you’ll start shifting that inner mean girl voice to the soft, gentle, and encouraging voice that Mary has and oh man, does this begin to feel so lovely.
- You’ll find a new way to motivate yourself that’s based on wanting to please the Lord instead of the harsh, shaming way you’ve been doing it.
Like yourself so much more because your inner voice is going to be sweet and kind. Can you even imagine that?
Week 7
Clear the Car Clutter:
Organize Your Car and Overcome Perfectionism
Jesus wouldn’t yell at you and Mary definitely wouldn’t berate you to be a better mom and homemaker. This week is about deep healing and functional order.
This week…
You’ll learn the Revisit a Memory with Jesus process, a prayer exercise where you invite Jesus or Mary to show you the truth of a past memory.
Practice powerful Renunciation Prayers to help break the power of lies you believe about yourself (like Rejection, Shame, and Hopelessness).
We will cover the essential processes for Forgiving Someone, Forgiving Yourself, and Forgiving God to release resentment and receive peace.
Tackle the clutter in your car and learn hacks to transform your vehicle into your “Personal Assistant” stocked with emergency supplies, so you can serve your family in a bigger way.
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“My anxiety is way less.”
“Just starting my day with God has brought my anxiety down more than I expected. I finally feel like I can breathe.”
— Jennifer
“I finally feel like myself again.”
“I had lost touch with who I was under the weight of motherhood. This program helped me reconnect with myself and with the woman God made me to be.”
— Sandy
Mary's Heart, Martha's Order was created so that you can:
- Be confident in managing your home with systems that truly work for your family’s unique needs
- Create beautifully organized spaces that make it easy for you to find what you need and keep everything in its place (not to mention the peace of mind that comes with clean spaces)
- Maximize your time, energy, and peace of mind so you can focus on what matters most (and have a clear plan to achieve it)
- Enjoy quick and effective solutions for decluttering and organizing that you can implement in just a few hours without needing to be a perfectionist or professional organizer.
And because gift giving is my love language (especially for mamas), I’m also giving you these bonuses:
Bonus #1:
From Whining to Helping: Training Kids to Pitch In
(Value $49)
I don’t do dishes or laundry. 😲 My kids do that. Now… you have to have kids who are old enough (and tall enough) to do certain chores but as soon as they are able, it’s best to teach them pitch in.
I will spill all my secrets to getting kids to help… and I mean really help. Not creating more work and mess than when they started.
Here’s what you’ll get:
- Step-by-step strategies for training kids how to do chores.
- List of age-appropriate chores with other factors to consider (e.g. height, ADHD, personality type, etc.)
- Plan for whining. I’ll teach you how to be cool as a cucumber when you say in your most Mary Poppins voice, “It’s okay that you feel that way, but please get your chores done anyway.”
Bonus #2:
14 Day Declutter Challenge
(Value $27)
When your home is messy, your brain works overtime just to process it—and you feel drained before the day even begins.
This 14-Day Challenge will help you clear the clutter and create calm, peaceful spaces—fast.
You’ll get two quick training videos and simple worksheets to guide you—no stress, no overwhelm, just small steps that make a big difference.
In just two weeks, you’ll feel lighter, have more energy, and love looking at your tidy, peaceful space
Bonus #3
The Decision Matrix
(Value $27)
Don’t you wish you could just go to Adoration and ask God what to do and He’d tell you a detailed answer with timelines and a checklist?
God rarely gives us that much detail but He does give us more clues than we think.
Using the Catholic Mom Calm Decision Matrix, we help put numbers to
✅ Evaluate what’s working and what needs work
✅ Figure out if you should travel to your in-laws this Christmas or not.
✅ Takes less than 5 minutes.
✅ Are sports helping or hurting your family?
✅ This tool makes the decision super clear.
Learn how to make confident, thoughtful decisions by using my signature Decision Matrix, a tool that will simplify your decision-making process and bring clarity to your choices.
Join Mary's Heart, Martha's Order Now
The 6-Week Challenge is just $49 for early access.
YOU GET ALL OF THIS…
- Lifetime access to all the challenge classes, coaching replays, and the workbook, including future updates ($99 value)
- 90 days of access to a private community of Catholic moms who are doing the challenge with you! ($99 value)
- Weekly Q&A Call on Zoom (recorded if you can’t make it) to answer questions and give you support. Thursdays at 10 am PST/1pm EST.
- Daily audio prayers from Sterling to help you stay centered and focused on what God is asking you each day ($30 value)
- BONUS #1: From Whining to Helping Course and Workbook ($49 value)
- BONUS #2: Back to School Audio Course and Workbook ($27 value)
- BONUS #3: The Catholic Mom Calm Decision Matrix ($27 value)
A $410 Value
All for only $79 $49
You can love God and live your life well.
You don’t have to choose between prayer and productivity.
You were made for both.
Come walk with us, and let the Lord reorder your days—from the inside out.
“My marriage is way better.”
”This program isn’t about marriage, but it helped me be calmer and less reactive—and that’s changed everything at home.”
— Helen —
“I thought I needed a new planner. I needed this.”
”I kept buying planners and trying new systems, but nothing stuck. It turns out I didn’t need more tools—I needed peace, prayer, and a new way of thinking.”
— Kelsey —
“We’re finally crawling out of survival mode.”
“This gave me a way to take steps forward without getting overwhelmed.”
— Juliana —
Hey, mama!
I'm Sterling.
I’m a Catholic convert and mom of six, and there was a season in my life when I felt like I was drowning.
Our home was disorganized, my tidying systems never worked, and I felt trapped by my role as mom. I complained to my husband, yelled at my kids, and thought I was ruining them.
Not only would they not know how to fold laundry, but they’d need a couple of decades of therapy to recover from me being their mom.
Then I learned something that changed everything. I learned how to create systems that worked for my family and how to get my brain on board every single day.
It transformed my entire life. Now my home is organized, and I haven’t done a load of laundry in 4 years. Yes, there are still hard days, but now I call them full days, and I know exactly how to handle them.
And you can too.
I want to give you the tools to create routines that actually work for your family’s unique needs.
Basically… I want to make motherhood as peaceful and fulfilling as God intended for YOU, which is exactly what we do in Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order.
We’ll start by helping you identify the areas of your home and life that are causing the most stress.
Then I’ll guide you through creating simple, sustainable systems that bring order and peace to your days, with a faith-centered mindset that keeps you grounded and calm in your vocation.
Ultimately, I want you to know…
You could spend hundreds (or thousands) on Ikea closet systems, Marie Kondo every piece of underwear in your house, or dive into another productivity course. But if you don’t have systems that are tailored to your family’s rhythms and a mindset that supports your role as a mother?
You’ll always feel you’re behind.
Having the right systems and an easy prayer routine is the investment that makes everything else pay off by (1) creating a home that runs smoothly and (2) allowing you to keep your peace no matter what comes your way.
You can live like Mary, even in a Martha world.
THIS CHALLENGE IS FOR YOU IF:
- You long to deepen your relationship with Christ
- You feel guilty for neglecting prayer but don’t know how to change it
- You still want to get the laundry done and dinner on the table
- You want to finally believe that peace is possible in your vocation
You don’t need more time.
You just need 20 minutes a day—and a plan that works.
“I am loving my life more and more as I go through the program.”
— Lori —
Our Peace of Mind Guarantee
100% Risk-Free
I am committed to helping you discover the motherhood God has planned for you. If you enroll in Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order, complete the weekly challenges, and don’t see the value, we will gladly provide a 100% refund within 30 days of your purchase.
Simply send me an email: [email protected]
As to your Qs
How much time will this take each week? (I’m already so strapped for time!)
I get it. My days are full, too. Each video is less than 20 minutes long (shorter than anything you could watch on Netflix), and the challenges are designed to fit in with what you’re already doing to clean and maintain your home. You already feed your kids and go grocery shopping. You already do laundry. What we’re doing in this challenge will naturally fit in with what you’re already doing.
Not a question, but I kinda feel like I should already have this figured out.
I hear you, and it’s a feeling many moms share. We think we should be able to manage home, family, and work without support or missing a beat. The truth is, motherhood is one of the most demanding and complex vocations there is, and there’s no one-size-fits-all manual for how to do it perfectly.
Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order isn’t about pointing out what you should already know or do. It’s about giving you practical tools and a faith-centered mindset that make your life easier and more joyful. No one expects you to have it all figured out on your own—this program is here to support you in creating the peaceful, organized home you desire, without the guilt or self-judgment.
Mary and Martha had their moments of struggle, and they had Jesus right there with them. You deserve support too.
How long do I have access?
The content is yours to keep for as long as you’d like! If I update the course, you’ll receive access to the new content as well.
What if I’m already overwhelmed? Learning something new sounds daunting.
The reason you’re overwhelmed is that you haven’t found what works for your family, and you don’t have the mindset tools in place to support you. This challenge will change that. Everything I’ll teach you is designed specifically for busy moms with hectic lives to simplify and get more peace, not add something to your plate.
Will I really be able to keep this up long-term?
I get it—life can be unpredictable, and sticking to new routines can be challenging. But Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order is designed for sustainability. The systems you’ll learn are flexible, simple, and tailored to your unique family dynamics, making them easy to maintain, even on the busiest days.
Rather than overwhelming you with rigid rules, we focus on building habits that naturally fit into your life. Plus, you’ll have ongoing access to the course materials and our supportive community whenever you need a refresher or encouragement.
You’re not just organizing your home—you’re creating lasting peace and joy that will stay with you long after the program ends.
I’ve tried other organizing programs before, and they didn’t stick. How is this different?
The difference with Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order is that it’s not just about organizing your home—it’s about transforming your mindset as well. We focus on building sustainable habits that last, supported by a faith-centered mindset that helps you remain calm and at peace, no matter what is happening in your life. You’ll also have my team’s full support and a community of hundred of Catholic moms to keep you encouraged and on track.
Is this really risk free?
Yes! I want you to feel confident that Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order is the right fit for you, which is why, if you enroll, complete the weekly challenges, and don’t see the value, we will gladly provide a 100% refund within 30 days of your purchase. Simply send me an email at [email protected].
…If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the daily demands of motherhood…
…If you’re struggling to find peace and order in your home…
…If you’re not sure how to balance your responsibilities with the joy and fulfillment you desire…
Then this program is for you!
Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order is priced far below other courses organization and mindset courses on the market (and below the value it provides!).
If you’ve been searching for a way to bring more peace into your home, this is it. If you’ve been feeling like you’re constantly spinning your wheels, now’s the time to stop.
We can’t wait to welcome you into Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order!