Stop drowning in chores.
start living with peace.
7–Week Challenge for Catholic Moms
Begins September 21st
Embrace your vocation with simple, sustainable housekeeping systems and a Marian heart to keep you grounded in Jesus.
Motherhood is not a contest for who can suffer the most.
God never intended for your motherhood to be a daily struggle where you feel like you’re losing your mind and yourself.
Motherhood is meant to be a vocation of love and joy.
You can find serenity in the midst of chaos, serve your family with grace, and embrace the peace that surpasses understanding God intends for you.
And it starts with nailing down simple, sustainable housekeeping systems like Martha and embracing a Jesus-centered heart like Mary.
Introducing
Mary's Heart, Martha's Order
A Seven week Challenge
$79 $49 Back-to-School sale Thru Sept. 15th
What’s included:
- A community of faithful Catholic moms (off of social media!) This community is a safe space to share your challenges, celebrate your victories, and grow together in faith.
- Tons of tried-and-true strategies for home management so you can find one that works for your lifestyle and your family. Yes, with checklists!
- Sterling’s exact process for getting your family to help with the chores and systems so you don’t have to shoulder all the housework by yourself.
- A short weekly video with tips, tricks, and hacks that will knock out your decision fatigue and help you get things done faster.
- Live weekly help from Sterling and her team to help answer any questions that come up along the way so don’t get or stay stuck during this process.
- Daily audio prayers from Sterling to help you stay centered and focused on what God is asking you.
- PRIZES. Finally! Let's make homemaking fun! 🙌🏼 (This might sound cheesy, but it’s true. Let's recognize the work moms do in their homes on a daily basis!)
Create systems that maintain order in your home while equipping you with a prayer life that helps you enjoy motherhood.
Because let’s face it: life will happen, challenges will come, you’ll still have to feed your family three times a day every single day.
But you can show up as the mother you want to be, no matter what’s going on around you. Just as God intended.
“I felt a huge shift in just 30 days”
“By the end of the first month, I was already yelling less and feeling more peace.”
— Catherine
“My family is noticing the difference in me.”
“My husband and kids have said I seem lighter, happier, more present.
It’s amazing how just ten minutes a day of prayer and planning has made such a visible change.”
— Maria
“I feel like I have so much more time.”
”I’m still just as busy, but I don’t feel frantic anymore.
The planning helps me focus.”
— Lucy
Jesus + Systems = Peace
At the end of seven weeks, you’ll walk away with a personalized home-keeping plan tailored to your family’s unique needs and rhythms.
PLUS… a short prayer routine that connects you with the Lord so you can maintain those systems without losing your peace.
“This is the first time I’ve felt hopeful in a long time.”
“I didn’t even realize how hopeless I’d been feeling until I started this challenge. For the first time in a long time, I feel peace and real hope again.”
— Therese
“I used to dread the day. Now I wake up calm.”
“I used to wake up with a pit in my stomach, already overwhelmed. But now I start my day with prayer and planning—and it’s completely changed how I feel in the mornings.”
— Clare
Hey, mama!
I'm Sterling.
I’m a Catholic convert and mom of six (ages 6 to 14) and there was a season in my life when I felt like I was drowning.
Our home was disorganized, my tidying systems never worked, and I felt trapped by my role as mom. I complained to my husband, yelled at my kids, and thought I was ruining them.
Not only would they not know how to fold laundry, but they might need therapy later to recover from the tone of our home.
Then everything changed. I learned how to create systems that worked for my family.
Now my home is organized, and I haven’t done a load of laundry in 4 years. Yes, there are still hard days, but now I call them full days, and I know exactly how to handle them.
And you can too.
I've helped thousands of Catholic moms.
For ten years, I’ve helped women make sense of the chaos of motherhood so they can drop the crushing guilt that they’re screwing everything up.
It doesn’t matter what life stage you’re in… littles to adult children.
When you tell yourself you’re failing… all day long… it’s exhausting.
Systems plus the love and care of Jesus completely changes your life and gives you so much of your energy back. Life doesn’t have to be draining!
here's what you'll do, week by week:
Week 1
Transform Your Time:
create a calendar that Brings Freedom and Peace
Week 2
Mary's Peace in Any Storm:
5 questions to bring you peace no matter what you're going through
Week 3
Master Mealtimes:
Simple Meal Planning for Stress-Free Dinnertimes
Week 4
Praying Like Mary:
Getting to know the holy spirit like never before
Week 5
Lighten the (literal) Load:
Simplify Laundry and Closet Organization
Week 6
The Gentle Voice of Mary:
Having a Marian Voice in your mind
Week 7
Clear the Car Clutter:
Organize Your Car and Overcome Perfectionism
“My anxiety is way less.”
“Just starting my day with God has brought my anxiety down more than I expected. I finally feel like I can breathe.”
— Jennifer
“I finally feel like myself again.”
“I had lost touch with who I was under the weight of motherhood. This program helped me reconnect with myself and with the woman God made me to be.”
— Sandy
And because gift giving is my love language,
I’m also giving you these bonuses:
Bonus #1:
From Whining to Helping: Training Kids to Pitch In
(Value $49)
I don’t do dishes or laundry. 😲 My kids do that. Now… you have to have kids who are old enough (and tall enough) to do certain chores but as soon as they are able, it’s best to teach them pitch in.
I will spill all my secrets to getting kids to help… and I mean really help. Not creating more work and mess than when they started.
Here’s what you’ll get:
- Step-by-step strategies for training kids how to do chores.
- List of age-appropriate chores with other factors to consider (e.g. height, ADHD, personality type, etc.)
- Plan for whining. I’ll teach you how to be cool as a cucumber when you say in your most Mary Poppins voice, “It’s okay that you feel that way, but please get your chores done anyway.”
Bonus #2:
14 Day Declutter Challenge
(Value $27)
When your home is messy, your brain works overtime just to process it—and you feel drained before the day even begins.
This 14-Day Challenge will help you clear the clutter and create calm, peaceful spaces—fast.
You’ll get two quick training videos and simple worksheets to guide you—no stress, no overwhelm, just small steps that make a big difference.
In just two weeks, you’ll feel lighter, have more energy, and love looking at your tidy, peaceful spaces.
Bonus #3
The Decision Matrix
(Value $27)
Don’t you wish you could just go to Adoration and ask God what to do and He’d tell you a detailed answer with timelines and a checklist?
God rarely gives us that much detail but He does give us more clues than we think.
Using the Catholic Mom Calm Decision Matrix, we help put numbers to
✅ Evaluate what’s working and what needs work
✅ Figure out if you should travel to your in-laws this Christmas or not.
✅ Takes less than 5 minutes.
✅ Are sports helping or hurting your family?
✅ This tool makes the decision super clear.
Learn how to make confident, thoughtful decisions by using my signature Decision Matrix, a tool that will simplify your decision-making process and bring clarity to your choices.
Join Mary's Heart, Martha's Order Today
YOU GET ALL OF THIS…
- Lifetime access to all the challenge classes, coaching replays, and the workbook, including future updates ($99 value)
- 90 days of access to a private community of Catholic moms who are doing the challenge with you! ($99 value)
- Daily audio prayers from Sterling to help you stay centered and focused on what God is asking you each day ($30 value)
- Weekly Q&A Call on Zoom (recorded if you can’t make it) to answer questions and give you support. Wednesdays at 9 am PST/Noon EST.
- BONUS #1: From Whining to Helping Course and Workbook ($49 value)
- BONUS #2: 14 Day Declutter Challenge and Workbook ($27 value)
- BONUS #3: The Catholic Mom Calm Decision Matrix ($27 value)
A $410 Value
All for only $79 $49 Back-to-School sale!
THROUGH SEPTEMBER 15th
“My marriage is way better.”
”This program isn’t about marriage, but it helped me be calmer and less reactive—and that’s changed everything at home.”
— Helen —
“I thought I needed a new planner. I needed this.”
”I kept buying planners and trying new systems, but nothing stuck. It turns out I didn’t need more tools—I needed peace, prayer, and a new way of thinking.”
— Kelsey —
“We’re finally crawling out of survival mode.”
“This gave me a way to take steps forward without getting overwhelmed.”
— Juliana —
Our Peace of Mind Guarantee
100% Risk-Free
I am committed to helping you discover the motherhood God has planned for you. If you enroll in Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order, complete the weekly challenges, and don’t see the value, we will gladly provide a 100% refund within 30 days of your purchase.
Simply send me an email: [email protected]
“I am loving my life more and more as I go through the program.”
— Lori —
As to your Qs
How much time will this take each week? (I’m already so strapped for time!)
I get it. My days are full, too. Each video is less than 20 minutes long (shorter than anything you could watch on Netflix), and the challenges are designed to fit in with what you’re already doing to clean and maintain your home. You already feed your kids and go grocery shopping. You already do laundry. What we’re doing in this challenge will naturally fit in with what you’re already doing.
Not a question, but I kinda feel like I should already have this figured out.
I hear you, and it’s a feeling many moms share. We think we should be able to manage home, family, and work without support or missing a beat. The truth is, motherhood is one of the most demanding and complex vocations there is, and there’s no one-size-fits-all manual for how to do it perfectly.
Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order isn’t about pointing out what you should already know or do. It’s about giving you practical tools and a faith-centered mindset that make your life easier and more joyful. No one expects you to have it all figured out on your own—this program is here to support you in creating the peaceful, organized home you desire, without the guilt or self-judgment.
Mary and Martha had their moments of struggle, and they had Jesus right there with them. You deserve support too.
How long do I have access?
The content is yours to keep for as long as you’d like! If I update the course, you’ll receive access to the new content as well.
What if I’m already overwhelmed? Learning something new sounds daunting.
The reason you’re overwhelmed is that you haven’t found what works for your family, and you don’t have the mindset tools in place to support you. This challenge will change that. Everything I’ll teach you is designed specifically for busy moms with hectic lives to simplify and get more peace, not add something to your plate.
Will I really be able to keep this up long-term?
I get it—life can be unpredictable, and sticking to new routines can be challenging. But Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order is designed for sustainability. The systems you’ll learn are flexible, simple, and tailored to your unique family dynamics, making them easy to maintain, even on the busiest days.
Rather than overwhelming you with rigid rules, we focus on building habits that naturally fit into your life. Plus, you’ll have ongoing access to the course materials and our supportive community whenever you need a refresher or encouragement.
You’re not just organizing your home—you’re creating lasting peace and joy that will stay with you long after the program ends.
I’ve tried other organizing programs before, and they didn’t stick. How is this different?
The difference with Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order is that it’s not just about organizing your home—it’s about transforming your mindset as well. We focus on building sustainable habits that last, supported by a faith-centered mindset that helps you remain calm and at peace, no matter what is happening in your life. You’ll also have my team’s full support and a community of hundred of Catholic moms to keep you encouraged and on track.
Is this really risk free?
Yes! I want you to feel confident that Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Order is the right fit for you, which is why, if you enroll, complete the weekly challenges, and don’t see the value, we will gladly provide a 100% refund within 30 days of your purchase. Simply send me an email at [email protected].
Join Mary's Heart, Martha's Order Today
YOU GET ALL OF THIS…
- Lifetime access to all the challenge classes, coaching replays, and the workbook, including future updates ($99 value)
- 90 days of access to a private community of Catholic moms who are doing the challenge with you! ($99 value)
- Daily audio prayers from Sterling to help you stay centered and focused on what God is asking you each day ($30 value)
- Weekly Q&A Call on Zoom (recorded if you can’t make it) to answer questions and give you support. Wednesdays at 9 am PST/Noon EST.
- BONUS #1: From Whining to Helping Course and Workbook ($49 value)
- BONUS #2: 14 Day Declutter Challenge and Workbook ($27 value)
- BONUS #3: The Catholic Mom Calm Decision Matrix ($27 value)