Yes, your marriage really is very painful.
We’re talking about marriages that involve emotional abuse, narcissism, gambling, affairs, p*rn usage, unequal division of labor, rage, borderline personality disorder, bi-polar disorder, military PTSD, significant health challenges and more.
These are not ordinary marriages.
These are sanctifying marriages and if that’s you, you’re in the right place.
My clients share things with me like:
“If I wasn’t Catholic, we’d already be divorced.”
“If he died, I’d probably feel relieved.”
“None of my friends understand what I’m going through.”
“It’s so painful, I can’t breathe.”
“My marriage is really damaging our kids.”
You don't have to live in this darkness.
Real Results
If you’re on the fence about joining, JOIN. You will not be disappointed in Sterling’s approach. She is so loving, knowledgeable, and realistic, and her program covers so much more than I expected. The participants are so supportive, and even as someone participating anonymously and silently, I am learning and receiving SO much. Sterling and all the beautiful ladies in this group are in my prayers every day.
- Mom with more hope
It's hard to put into words how different my outlook is after going through this program. Being a part of this program has led me to have more hope and peace in my marriage. Doing what Sterling says to do worked for me. The problems in my marriage are still there, but amazingly, they don't drain me like they used to before I had the perspective that Sterling teaches. What I have learned here was not easy for me to implement consistently, but the more I worked at it, the more I found grace to respond well to various painful episodes in my marriage. I have more hope now because I will continue to work on it, and I believe it will continue to get better.
-Mom with more hope
It’s possible to feel peace in the very marriage you have right now. I promise.
After going through my program, you will know how to:
- Calm down, even in the middle of an argument
- Stop feeling so angry all the time
- Respond in a way that you’re proud of, instead of stabbing back
- Actually create things in your life that you look forward to instead of feeling dead inside
And most of all… you’re going to feel hope that things can get better.
Things will get better.
Who am I?
I'm Sterling Jaquith, and I have a painful marriage.
Our marriage was painful from the very beginning. There was no honeymoon phase for us. We got pregnant right away and had six kids in eight years. We had two 10-month periods of complete abstinence because of bedrest and postpartum.
We are extremely devout Catholics and it just didn’t make any sense that our marriage was so painful.
I have cried so many tears and railed at God after heartbreaking fights that left me feel alone and unloved. For years, I was hopeless.
I learned how to have peace and to feel loved without changing my husband at all. Now, I teach Catholic women four simple skills so they can do the same.
Sanctifying Marriage Process
01
Shorten the Stress Cycle
Learn to limit how long you’re in a fight or flight state
02
Control your Actions
Stop throwing verbal knives at your husband
03
Deal with your Anger
Heal wounds through forgiveness and renouncing lies
04
Know, Love & Serve God
Steward this one beautiful life that you have well
RESULTS FROM THIS PROCESS:
I haven’t felt so much hope in years. Hope not that things will change, but hope that springs from knowing that I’m where I need to be, and doing the work I need to do, to become the saint I was born to be.
– Mom with more hope
The program has changed my life. It has not changed my husband, however, he sees the kinder, gentler, less angry me and I can see that he’s intrigued. These tools will be useful for the rest of my life. I am uncovering who I am and falling in love my life!
– Mom with more hope
Here's what this program includes:
Learn Four Powerful Skills
I walk you through four skills with short videos and make them feel easy to practice.
A Simple Workbook
I hold your hand through simple exercises that lead to the Lord and lead you to peace.
Weekly Coaching Calls
Includes weekly coaching calls. We give each other real support and actual problem-solving help.
A Community Chat
A place where we can hold each other’s hearts. This community is not on Facebook and you can participate with a fake name if you want anonymity. A true support community of women who get it.
Price: $50/month
"You should consider this program if you feel hopeless in your marriage."
- Mom with more hope
FAQs
No. This program is open to any Catholic woman who is married. A painful marriage is still very painful whether you have kids or not.
Yes. You’ll see the payment option when you go to check out.
Absolutely. You can sign up and fully participate with a fake name for complete anonymity. We are going to be talking about very real and private things. Nothing will be public. I will not share anything without expressly asking permission first and I will always leave out names and identifying information. This is a completely safe space for Catholic women.
No. If you are physically in danger, get to safety and find a local women’s group/shelter or a parish that can help you with next steps.
I get it. Some of the hardest marriages are also the ones where money feels out of your control.
You might be carrying the full weight of the finances…
Or navigating a situation where asking for money feels impossible.
What I want you to know is this: You’re allowed to invest in support—even if someone else has convinced you not to.
And if money truly is a barrier, we offer a limited number of scholarships each cohort. Please email us at [email protected] for help.
Navigating a painful marriage is hard.
You can discover peace.
Thanks so much! You are a marriage saver!
- Mom with more hope
Catholic Marriage Hope
equips you with:
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Learn the Four Skills
Watch short videos that will teach you the skills to have more hope and peace in your marriage. -
Hand-Holding Workbook
I will hold your heart and walk you step-by-step through simple exercises that are going to help you feel more in control in your life. -
Weekly Group Coaching Calls
Each week, come get personalized coaching about what you're going through and benefit from listening to the other women in the group so you don't feel alone. -
Community Support
We have a community that is off Facebook where we can interact with each other (anonymously if you want.) Get support from other Catholic women in painful marriages as we point each other to Christ. -
Private Podcast
All our materials are on a private podcast to make it easy to listen to the course classes and the coaching replays on your phone while you're out and about.
Price: $50/month
30–Day Money Back Guarantee
I know you've tried a lot of things. I want to make it easy for you to try again. If this doesn't help you in the first 30 days, I'll refund your money.
Navigating a painful marriage is hard.
You can discover peace.
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