Discover peace in the chaos of motherhood.

We see you…

Raising kids, managing the home, and trying to take care of....... everyone.

YOU white-knuckle your way through the day, falling into bed begging God to give you the strength to do it all over again in a few short hours.

Inside your mind is spinning

You wanted a family and a home. This is the life you prayed for.

You thought things would be better by now. So why are you not happy? 

God wants so much more for you than just survival.

One year with us will completely change your life.

New Years Workshop

Plan from Peace

Screen Less for Lent

Digital decluttering

Tame the MAYhem

Strategize Your Spring Chaos

Keep Your Cool

summer Can Be PEaceful

Mary's Heart
Martha's Order

finally find balance

Less Stress
for the Holidays

smooth out your holiday preparations

Advent Bonus!
Light in the Darkness Devotional

Here's how your journey will unfold:

Year of Calm

We’ll kick off the new year with a new way of looking at prayer, planning, systems, and the self-management skills you never learned in school (AKA, Catholic Mom Calm).  

Let’s be real; Mom life is loud and busy, but learning these skills plants the seeds of calm.  We’ll show you how to 

 

  • Pause and discern God’s will for your life
  • Learn how to work and plan from peace
  • Design a weekly plan that actually feels do-able, and 
  • Create the supportive systems that work with the ups and downs of real life 

…so you can feel prepared and focused every day.

Lenten Decluttering Challenge

Lent is here and you notice you are surrounded by stuff, stuff and MORE stuff.  How do we manage to accumulate so much, anyway?

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: Every object in our home takes time to manage and maintain.  If you add it all up, it represents an astronomical amount of our life.

In this Lenten challenge, we get the STUFF under control and practice holy detachment, so we can separate our self-image from our STUFF, and make space in our home and in our schedules for the things that really matter.

By the time you are through, you won’t recognize your house, and the holes in your heart that you’ve been filling with possessions will be well on their way to being mended.

Tame the Mayhem

Have you ever noticed how April and May feel like a crazy blur every year as you plow through one event after another?  Sacraments, graduations, recitals…and of course with all the outfits, gifts, bobby pins, first communion dresses, cakes to bake, cards to send….who has time for cooking, dishes and laundry?

The mental load is off the charts.

We help you smooth out this crazy season and feel calm and focused while you do it.

Keep your Cool in Summer

Yikes!  It’s another routine break.  School’s out and every year feels like a mad scramble.

Also, for some reason, the kids are hungry every 30 seconds and begging for extra screen time.  Plus you feel so much pressure to make sure that every moment is a core memory (they only have so many summers before they grow up, after all.)

You know what we always forget? A great summer starts with a calm mama.

This season’s focus is on self-regulation; deciding how you want to show up and mastering the skills to do it.

So when little Susie leaves her shoes at home for the hike…you can handle it.

And if the car breaks down on the way to Yosemite…you can handle that, too.

We’ll be taking every new challenge as an opportunity to practice and coach you through applying those newfound Catholic Mom Calm skills until your muscle memory finally takes over and it starts to feel like auto-pilot.

Mary's Heart and Martha's Order

School is back in session and you breathe a sigh of relief as routine is restored.  With the chaos behind you, you’re feeling ready to level up on your interior life and managing your home.  

Somehow, you’ve never quite figured out the right balance here before.

This is the year you finally get clear on how to spend your time well.

We’re going to take our prayer life more seriously.

Create order and systems in our home.

And finally find that Mary/Martha balance.

Less Stress for the Holidays

It’s November and you’ve been working at this Catholic Mom Calm thing for almost a year at this point.  You know how to plan, pray, and show up as the mom God is calling you to be.

Now it’s the time for your final lesson. Navigating holiday planning with the peace that passes understanding.

Whether it’s stressful relationships or the mental load of…well, EVERYTHING, you’ll have the support and coaching you need to sail through this season with interior freedom you never knew was possible

This is the Year you finally master

Catholic Mom Calm

Join 2,000+ Catholic Moms doing this work.

“The Model has been eye-opening and life-altering for me!"

When I feel “stuck,” I pull out this tool and dig down into my feelings and thoughts. It allows me to peel away the layers and the fluff to get to the real reason I am stuck. Once I can figure out the reason, I am able to modify my thoughts and actions, which allows me to get “unstuck” and start to make progress toward my goal.

- Donna

“I joined hoping to lose a little weight, but I lost so much more! I feel alive for the first time in years.”

Learning these tools changed my life. I joined hoping to lose a little weight, but I lost so much more! I lost my negative self-talk, my hopeless outlook on the world, my disconnection from my family. Instead, I have gained confidence, connection, and purpose. I feel alive for the first time in years – finally thriving rather than just surviving.

- Kristy

“If you want to feel empowered and supported as you grow into the woman God made you to be, this is the place for you.”

Wow! I have been watching the coaching calls or videos a couple times a week and working through the Made Daily sheets each day for close to a month, and I have already learned so much about myself. I love using the model, and have even helped one of my children work through a challenge with it. If you want to feel empowered and supported as you grow into the woman God made you to be, this is the place for you. Thank you!

- Jen

”I am loving my life more and more 
as I go through the program.”

Before I joined, much of the time, I felt like I was a machine just getting my jobs done. I measured my success only on how much I got done and how much sleep I still could get. Now I am learning that is not the life God the Father wants for his daughters. We want our kids to love their lives, so of course God wants me to love mine, too, every day. I am loving my life more and more as I go through the program.

- Lori

What to expect:

Step One: Your Thoughts

When you begin to listen to the ticker tape of thoughts in your mind… you’re going to realize, it’s pretty negative. You regularly trash talk yourself on the inside, while moving throughout your day.

This is unacceptable.

God did not create beautiful you so you could put yourself down and spiral in anxiety or sadness.

Step Two: Your Faith

Most of you think you’re doing okay in the faith department. I used to think this too. But when I started to speak more kindly to myself… I opened up a whole new channel in my prayer life.

I finally heard God’s voice clearly.

When you slow down your thoughts and speak more kindly to yourself, your prayer life will explode and so will your clarity.

Step Three: Your Work

You might think you’re afraid of hard things or work… but really you’re not. You just hate wasting time or energy and then wondering if you spent your time correctly. When you know what God wants, you want to work.

Conviction changes everything.

We promise, when you calm your mind and get clear on what God is asking you to do, life gets so much more simple and peaceful.

Hey there!

I'm Sterling Jaquith. I help Catholic moms have more peace.

My Life Was radically changed and significantly improved by a secular coaching program!

Even though it was helpful, it was lacking the most important thing… God.

I knew God was calling me to blend these tools with the truth, beauty and goodness of our Catholic faith to equip moms to…

… have more peace
… feel more in control
… and get more done.

I’m on a mission to teach you how to love your life, overcome your obstacles, and live with more peace.

"I no longer feel defeated!

Both my husband and I recognize a significant change in my ability to deal with daily stressors and engage with my family.

I’m also maintaining a less cluttered home AND losing weight!"

My husband says he’s not walking on eggshells anymore! I started this program when I was in a low spot. My youngest of five was 10 months old and I thought I should’ve bounced back mentally by this point, but instead felt I was slipping into depression. 

I was struggling and often felt defeated by the clutter in the house, my to-do list, overeating, and social media use. I was faithful with exercise and prayer, but still felt I wasn’t living the abundant life to which I believe Christ calls me. 

I felt guilty about it but didn’t know what else to do. This program seemed expensive, but it was cheaper than going on medication, so I decided to give it a try.

I’ve been blown away and so incredibly grateful for what I’m learning and now feel the $49 a month is a steal! Learning the Model has taught me how to master my mind and bring it into line with truth in multiple areas. 

I no longer feel defeated!

I still have so much to learn, but both my husband and I recognize a significant change in my outlook, ability to deal with daily stressors and engage with my family. I’m maintaining a less cluttered home, losing weight and am confidently engaging in cultural issues from which I used to steer away.

I see how key this program has been in the last two months in helping me enjoy my daily life right here and now and pursue the larger call God has for me! If you’re on the fence, if you feel stuck in any area of your life, I urge you to try it.

- Lori

Frequently Asked Questions:

Answered before you ask!

It takes as much or as little time as you want. There are no requirements or tests 😉 We recommend filling out the Morning Pause worksheet every day which takes 5-10 minutes, but even that is optional. All of our videos are short because hey—we’re moms. We need quick, bite-sized pieces!

No way! Our community is filled with young moms who have babies… all the way to seasoned moms who are caring for their own aging parents. It’s important to manage your mind at all stages of life!

We designed this community for Catholic moms, but we also welcome Catholic women who are not moms. Most of our courses are all about managing your emotions, not about being a mom. So as long as you’re fine with us saying mom a lot, come join us!

We offer several sessions of group coaching per week through Zoom. Anyone can come and you can participate anonymously. If you want coaching, you ‘raise your hand’ (virtually speaking), we will call on you and coach you on the spot. It’s a beautiful and powerful experience!

Plus, if you’re not looking to be coached, you don’t have to catch the calls live. They’re all recorded and replays are posted regularly so you can watch or listen on your own schedule.

Mother Teresa says,

“Yesterday is gone, tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today, let us begin.

Come Join Us!

Community Benefits

Join Catholic Mom Calm Today

You get all of this…

  • Lifetime access to all the classes, coaching replays, and workbook, including future updates, for all our 2026 core programs – Year of Calm, Screen Less for Lent, Tame the Mayhem, Keep Your Cool, Back to School, Mary’s Heart, Martha’s Home, Less Stress for the Holidays, and Light in the Darkness Advent Devotional 
  • Access to a private community of Catholic moms who are doing this work along with you! 
  • 2-3 weekly group coaching calls 
  • Daily audio prayers from Sterling to help you stay centered and focused on what God is asking you each day 
  • BONUS #1: Digital Copy of my books Catholic Mom Calm and Not of this World: A Catholic’s Guide to Minimalism ($10 value)
  • BONUS #2: Lifetime access to my Catholic Mom Calm Method course

 

All for only $300/year or $30/month

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If you’re here, something we’ve said has resonated with you.

BE OPEN TO WHY GOD HAS CALLED YOU to thIS PAGE IN THIS MOMENT. WHAT DOES HE WANT TO SHOW YOU?

But here’s the thing most DON’T know:
You won’t have any idea how to find that peace until you learn how to manage your thinking.

So we want to ask you something before we depart and go our separate ways: If you got rid of the guilt and self-doubt so you can experience more happiness and feel competent in motherhood, would it be worth this investment?

“Yours is the only group that she's found that actually helps moms and equips them with tools rather than seemingly looking down on them...”

I just wanted to thank you for what you guys do. My wife found your masters program about a year ago and it’s been very revolutionary for her. She (and I) really appreciate your practical approach to things, and the willingness to be real about everything. It seems like so many of the support resources out there boil down to “just do better” without actually helping you get down that path. Yours is the only group that she’s found that actually helps moms and equips them with tools rather than seemingly looking down on them. And she’s tried a lot of different programs.

Again, really appreciate everything. Thank you.

- From A Husband

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